Triumph over Adversity I

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Nneka Hephzibah Obiagwu

There are a few women I have been privileged to meet whose lives inspire me especially on my own journey. Today, I want to share a very abridged version of Nneka’s story. She is a fantastic woman, strong from inside out; a very rare reflection of ‘Triumphing over Adversity’. I will be sharing her story in two parts seeing it is quite lengthy.

Nneka was born and bred in the eastern part of Nigeria in the 70’s and all her life, wanted to be a diplomat. In particular, she aspired to be the first African female Secretary – General  of the United nations. Thankfully, she was the daughter of a Political Science academic and plotted her career path to ensure she ended up as an International Relations specialist in Conflict Negotiation. She had it all mapped out to the schools and requisite skills required to achieve same.  Thankful for the focus, she swiftly went about accomplishing all those objectives; graduated with excellent grades in Political Science from the University of Nigeria Nsukka, and moved on to Abuja where she worked at the National Assembly and The ECOWAS Parliament, hoping to hone her skills before leaving for her graduate  program.  Talk about a smooth ride? Yes, that was what her life felt like.

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Some changes in her body system over time left her with a diagnosis of symptomatic fibroids. Wasn’t fibroid associated with older women? She was a young, unmarried girl in her mid-twenties reaching for the stars and this?

Unwilling to accept the surgical option, she, along with her family, initially decided to let it be, manage the associated symptoms, and just get on with life. This they did but within a year of discovery it was obvious something needed to be done and fast. The fibroid had grown so big that her stomach was physically extended and the complications associated with the positioning of the fibroid which was right on top of the bladder at the cavity of the uterus could no longer be ignored, and the pain was just out of this world.

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In November 2004, she had to have surgery with post operative complications; this caused pain which persisted well into the coming months till she left to Europe for her graduate program. Another diagnosis revealed the need for another surgery, and on the 18th of May 2005, there was another surgery after which the doctors informed her that, as a result of all the damage to the reproductive organs, she would be unable to conceive naturally and would need assisted reproductive techniques.

So there she was in a foreign land, trying to get a graduate degree, yet saddled with such life altering news while still in her 20’s.

Subsequent investigations revealed that her tubes were blocked. This was a 20 something year old woman who had her heart sold out to God. Blocked tubes kwa?

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At this stage she got on her knees and did what she had always done in times of distress – call on her God. Her entire family rose up in solidarity to call on God and besiege Him on her behalf. Shortly after her arrival in Europe, she met a fellow Nigerian legally resident and on work assignment from home, and they became fast friends. He was one of the friends that supported her throughout that period. About a year later, that man, Nnamdi, asked her to marry him. She was convinced he was nuts and wondered who in their right minds will, with open eye, ‘buy wahala’? But he remained sure of his decision and reasons, and after weeks of prayer, consultations with a lot of people including the fertility doctors, they were ‘convinced’ that with the ‘help’ of science and by the grace of God, they would be able to have kids through InVitro Fertilization. She didn’t think it would be fair to drag him into marriage if he wanted kids and she couldn’t have kids naturally.

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So Nneka and Nnamdi began preliminary qualification tests for IVF and worked out a schedule for commencement of the hormonal injections she needed to start taking. But God was determined to have the final word in that matter. The day she was supposed to start with the injections, it was discovered quite by accident that she was pregnant!! They were all stumped; no one had seen that one coming. IT WAS A TOTAL MIRACLE, no man-made science involved at all. God had proved Himself as the Master physician and confused the specialists. Thinking it had to be an ectopic pregnancy, they had them wait a couple more weeks till it was advanced enough to ascertain the location and to the glory of God, the fetus was smack in the uterus.

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Her shocked fertility specialists released her into the care of a regular Ob-gyn, who monitored her ever so closely because she still had recurring fibroids growing alongside the fetus. She had the most uncomplicated gestation duration really, despite the fibroids and 38 weeks after, Chukwuebuka Tobechukwu Obiagwu was born via C-section, hale and hearty. Nneka returned to Nigeria triumphant with a graduate degree in International conflict analysis, husband, and baby in tow. It was a long way from where she had started from years earlier. She was indeed a beneficiary of God’s extravagant grace and was content and ready to get back into the swing of things, follow up on her career advancement, and love her miracle baby and husband to death.

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God was indeed faithful and continues to be!

To be continued…

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24 comments to Triumph over Adversity I

  • Hammed  says:

    Such a moving story… GOD IS ABLE

  • Bisi  says:

    When God shows up, He makes it clear that He and only He, is at work.

    • Stupendous Grace  says:

      GBAM!!! What more is there to say. Welcome to StupendousGrace dear Bisi, thank you for leaving your first comment. Hope you stop by again. :-)

  • naijawife  says:

    is it a true story?

    • Stupendous Grace  says:

      Yes it is, 100%…and it’s not even done yet. I will post the concluding part.

  • M  says:

    Awesome!!!!! The more I learn about the God who did this and many other miracles, the less I can accept “human traditions that make the Word of God of non- effect”.

    • Stupendous Grace  says:

      Fantastic M!!! God’s word stands true. God bless you dear.

  • diademstots  says:

    After reading, this song just came to mind …”oh what a glorious God, oh what a Glorious God”. He is awesome like that. A very inspiring story , thanks for sharing.

    • Stupendous Grace  says:

      Fantastic, now I can’t just stop singing the song too. God is just fantastic in the way He does His things. You are welcome and I thank Nneka for sharing her story…very inspiring it is.

  • imperfectlyperfect92  says:

    Pls oh,nor delay..next part…

  • drnsmusings  says:

    Lord, I thank you for this miracle. My bestie died 2 years ago during CS complicated by fibroids. Same story. Served God all her life. I cried till I nearly lost it. Finally, I accepted that there are sev angles to every story. It’s well

  • eka  says:

    Dearest Eloho, thank you very much and may God bless you beyond measure for helping us fulfil our promise of telling of His goodness.

    Like I told you when we spoke, my hope is that it speaks to someone about the unmerited goodness of God and helps them build up their hope and faith in the face of adversity.

    I did absolutely nothing to deserve or merit the favour of God but He found me worthy to be a beneficiary of His extravagant grace and for that I am eternally grateful. Yet again I sing “God is able to do, just what He says He will do. He’s gonna fulfil EVERY promise to you. Don’t give up on God cos He won’t give up on you, He’s able!!!

  • Ikia  says:

    Beautifully written. Even though I know Nneka personally and confirm this story, the words are crafted in such a way that you see beyond the words and see the spirit and workings of God crafting a story for all to see that He is in charge.

  • Ollie OT  says:

    God is great!

    • Stupendous Grace  says:

      Yes, He is great. Welcome to Stupendous Grace. We ring the bell of blessing for your first comment. :)

  • Isaacola AA  says:

    He is still in the business of doing wonders. Semper fidelis

  • Inthe...  says:

    When God does a miracle, he leads no question as to where it came from. Mind blowing!

  • Triumph in Adversity II  says:

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  • Theresa Doghor  says:

    I read it on my smartphone
    Just was unable to post comments

    Her life is a testimony
    as my colleague says, ‘I love testimonies’ too.
    It helps me see what I can believe God for
    I have been basking in what God had done
    I receive faith to press for the more

    He does say, ‘life more abundantly’
    I aint satisfied with where I am, I want more
    of what God has for me.

    You are an inspiration Nneka, and thank you Eloxie for sharing this
    an thanks for everything.

    • Stupendous Grace  says:

      God bless you Tessa. I’m sure Nneka is encouraged by this.

  • enajyte  says:

    He’s a miracle working God…

    • Stupendous Grace  says:

      Yes, He is….

  • ogetours  says:

    Buddie of life!!!!thank you for consistently watering “us people” via stupendous grace! A beautiful story indeed. A reminder to let God be God in our lives! Biko post the sequel asap o!

    • Stupendous Grace  says:

      Thanks dear, God is just amazing and that we are going through a storm doesn’t mean He is not with us. God bless you.

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